Nicki Bowles- The Privilege of Pastoring Together– A Mutual Call to Surrender.

Nicki Bowles- The Privilege of Pastoring Together– A Mutual Call to Surrender.

As I sit and reflect on my own call to pastoring, I am confronted not only by the immense privilege it has been to serve the Church of Jesus Christ in ministry, but also how difficult it has been in many ways. For the past five years, God has taken me on a confronting journey that continues to require my full surrender to Him.  This is a journey into the dawning realization that, in an age where the promotion of self appears paramount and essential, Jesus actually asks the opposite of us – a denial of self, a cross-shaped lifestyle, a laying down of things held dear, surrender to Him and submission to each other.

As I reflect on the mutuality and confluence of men and women serving together in leadership I am increasingly mindful of the fact that all are called to surrender to Jesus, all are called to mutual submission, all are called to a laying down of personal rights, agendas, and opinions. The way of the cross is one of simplicity and love. This requires a letting go of pride, and power, and control. What does it mean to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21)? To consider others better than yourself? In finding the answers to these questions we can be set free to promote others, to create unity, and to work for a release of all into their giftings for the benefit of the Body of Christ. I love the Passion translation of Romans 12:10 – “Be devoted to tenderly loving your fellow believers as members of one family. Try to outdo yourselves in respect and honor of one another.”

This challenge resounds to male and female alike….

My call to pastoring was not a call to a position or a career, but a call to service. This was a call that came out of love for others and a belief that the people of God have an answer for the world’s pain. I was working as a paramedic with St John Ambulance WA in 2009 when my partner and I received a call to attend to the hanging suicide of a young woman. I wrote in my journal:

“I am walking away from the woman’s lifeless body lying on the ground. There is nothing that can be done. I have been a paramedic with St John Ambulance WA for seven years, and these jobs, (callouts to suicides), never get easier. This young woman committed suicide because she couldn’t cope with the pain after her mentally ill ex-partner murdered their three-year-old son. Oh, Jesus, I want to work with people before they get to this point of no return.”

I could have gone into counseling or social work; perhaps another profession in the health area. However, I wanted to be free to tell people the good news of Jesus Christ in my job… I knew I was being called to be a pastor. I went on to study for a Graduate Diploma of Divinity at Vose Seminary, and have now been working at Riverview Church for 6 years.

I believe that we are entering into a season where Jesus is waking up His church, resounding a new call for her to be the light and salt that she needs to be in order to stand effectively against the darkness overshadowing our world. This will require a new unity within the Church of Perth, with all people who call themselves disciples of Jesus joining together to embody the Body of Christ in all her beauty, complexity, strength, and diversity.

“You are the body of the Anointed One, and each of you is a unique and vital part of it.” 1 Corinthians 12:27 (TPT)

Amen

 

Nicki Bowles is a Care Pastor at Riverview Church, a large, contemporary community of Jesus-followers in Perth Western Australia. In this role Nicki is responsible for the pastoral care and spiritual direction of Riverview people, as well as the facilitation of the weekly Prayer Gathering. She holds a Graduate Diploma of Divinity from Vose Seminary, and has been pastoring for six years after a seven year stint as a paramedic with St John Ambulance WA.  She is passionate about Jesus and his Church, her family, and fashion, and also loves to dance to Abba music when things get too serious. She appreciates her husband Tim, who works as a drama teacher, and always supports her in her ministry call.

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Breaking Down Those Walls

Breaking Down Those Walls

By Rev Dr Jennifer Turner OAM

There are three fundamental divisions between people that, because of sin, cause hostility and hurt: race, status, and gender (cf. Galatians 3:28). Jesus came to break down these barriers, not to make all people alike, but to remove enmity and fear and so create the relationships that God intended us to have from the beginning (Genesis 1:26).

The book of Acts documents the breaking down of the first of these dividing walls: that between Jew and Gentile. The New Testament gives great importance to the theological truth that ‘in Christ there is neither Jew nor Greek’ and shows how it became a practical reality in the life of the early church. There are parallels between this process of reconciliation between Jew and Gentile and the breaking down of barriers between free people and slaves, and between men and women.

The second barrier, that between slave and free, was overcome in western society in the nineteenth century through Christians such as William Wilberforce but there are many parts of the world where it is still an open sore. However, we are now in the time when we must apply the New Testament experience of reconciliation between Jew and Gentile to the relationship between men and women, particularly in the church.

The importance of breaking down barriers

The importance that Paul attached to the role of the Gospel in breaking down barriers, specifically the barrier between Jew and Gentile, can be seen in at least three ways.

First, reconciliation is at the heart of the Gospel. The primary reconciliation is with God but should result in reconciliation with others (John 13:34-45; 1 John 3:17-18). The love and forgiveness we experience from God are intended to produce, by the Holy Spirit’s work, similar love and forgiveness in our relationships with others. Such reconciliation demonstrates the power of the Gospel. Or as someone has said, the test of orthodoxy in the New Testament is not doctrine, but love. In Ephesians 2 Paul contends that the Gospel not only reconciles individual Jews and Gentiles to God but also changes fundamentally the relationship between them. Jesus ‘destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility . . . in one body to reconcile both of them [Jew and Gentile] to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility’ (Ephesians 2:14-16).

Second, in Paul’s account of his opposition to Peter in Antioch (Galatians 2:11ff.), he indicates it was no small matter for Peter to withdraw from eating with Gentiles: it challenged the basic tenet that justification is by faith and not by observing the law (2:16). Peter needed to be prepared by a dream to take the Gospel to the Gentiles in the first instance. He was now backtracking from this fundamental insight. In other words, the social demonstration of reconciliation, in this case, table fellowship, was necessary for the full expression of the Gospel.

Third, the need to demonstrate the reconciling power of the Gospel lies behind the extraordinary importance Pau gave to the collection from the Gentiles for the impoverished Jews in Jerusalem. (Acts 19:21; 1 Corinthians 16:1-4; 2 Corinthians 8 and 9; Romans 15:25-27.) This could have been a case of Paul simply carrying out the Jerusalem Council’s injunction to ‘remember the poor’ (Galatians 2:10), but it is his standard practice to link fellowship to sharing money (10 out of his 14 uses of the word koinonia refer to sharing money with other Christians). For Paul, giving was a clear expression of oneness in Christ, a demonstration that the Good News has the power to reconcile Gentile and Jew. Jews had taken the Gospel to the Gentiles, now Gentiles could express their solidarity in return by this monetary gift.

In summary, the social implications of reconciliation to God were revolutionary in the early church. It broke down social barriers so that all could participate in the life of the church.

The process of breaking down barriers

Jesus’ teaching had been clear. The great commission was explicit. Pentecost demonstrated the Holy Spirit’s power to overcome barriers. There could be no mistaking that God now intended to call all people to himself and so undo the alienating effect of the Fall. But the book of Acts shows that this process of reconciliation neither happened automatically nor all at once, because there were great cultural prejudices to overcome. The Jews had maintained their identity by a heightened sense of their unique relationship to God. Though there is in the Old Testament a note of God’s concern for all peoples, the Jews expected their covenant God Yahweh would be worshipped by nations coming to Zion. The Gentiles were, they thought, to become ‘honorary Jews’. The book of Acts recounts the story of God opening their culturally conditioned eyes.

It is part of human nature that what is accepted in principle (eg that in Jesus Christ, God welcomes all people equally, irrespective of their social standing) takes time and discipline to be applied in everyday life. Reading the New Testament, it seems that there were several steps to the practical application of the full reconciliation of Jew and Gentile.

First, God controlled the timing of these changes by preparing the key players. He prepared Peter for his mission to Cornelius through a dream. Paul was prepared by his background and wide social, as well as religious, qualifications before being commissioned specifically as the ‘apostle to the Gentiles’. He did not see this simply as a job description. He lobbied for the Gentiles’ full recognition in the church, both socially and in leadership roles.

Second, Acts 10:44 states explicitly that the Holy Spirit came on all those Gentiles who heard the message in the home of Cornelius and it was this that confirmed their acceptance by God and verified their baptism (Acts 10:47). It was this that Peter emphasised in his report to the church leaders in Jerusalem (Acts 11:15-18). The spread of the church from Jerusalem also confirmed that God was behind this movement.

Third, demonstrating the full implications of the Gospel sometimes took concerted effort. Paul took up the challenge on behalf of the Gentiles by confronting Peter in Galatia, before church leaders more widely, and in his writings. He was a privileged Jew giving up personal and racial self-interest to demonstrate the reconciling power of the Good News.

Fourth, Council action did not precede but followed God’s demonstration of his intentions. The decision of the Council in Acts 15 regarding the position of the Gentiles followed its discernment of God’s plan for total inclusion of all non-Jews. If the Council had been held before it was obvious that the Holy Spirit was creating a world-wide church, the decision might have been more narrow.

Applying these principles to the issue of women as church leaders

The power of the Gospel to bring about reconciliation needs to be demonstrated in the church in all areas, but particularly in relationships between men and women. It is not enough to say that women have equal access to God when we forbid public use of the gifts God has given them. As with the Gentiles, this relegates women to be second-class members whose ‘deficiencies’ have not been overcome by the cross.

The relationship between men and women is the issue of our day. The time-table may be set by society but Christians should have been there first. I am convinced that the underlying problem is a deep-seated fear between men and women that only the Cross can heal. If we are not actively involved in this healing process, we are denying the power of the Gospel.

This is not a question of a woman’s right to ministry. In the Kingdom of God, servants can claim no rights, only responsibility to perform faithful service (Luke 22:24-27; 17:7-10). Nor is it about titles or status (Matthew 23:1-12). We have a mandate to show that the Gospel opens access to God, gives everyone a Holy Spirit-endowed responsibility in the church, and especially breaks down barriers between fellow believers.

The process of reconciliation needs men as well as women committed to demonstrating the power of the Good News in this area, people prepared to go out on a limb. Formal decisions by churches to recognise women’s leadership are certainly not running ahead of God. Rather they are acknowledging that the Holy Spirit has already given many gifts to women, including that of servant leadership. To oppose their ministry is to run the danger of standing in God’s way (Acts 11:17) by not being in step with the Spirit.

The primary objective must be to break down the ‘dividing walls of hostility’ by healing the deep-seated fear. This will include experiencing the public ministry of women and receiving God’s restoration of cross-gender relationships in our lives.

Bu following the pattern of making theological truth real in everyday life in relationships between men and women, we will demonstrate that the Gospel is the power of God for salvation. We will also be realising our heritage that the priesthood of all believers really is for all, that the gifts of the Holy Spirit are for all, and that the Christ-like way of servant authority is for all.

From an article first published in Faith ad Freedom, 1.1, 1992, 21-23.

 

Rev Dr Jennifer Turner OAM has been a pioneering pastor with Baptist and Churches of Christ and a sessional lecturer in several Australian and overseas seminaries. In her retirement, she is supervising doctoral students in Asia and Australia and training pastors in Africa. She also continues to write on the theology of everyday life and enjoys her family of three sons and her eight grandchildren. Her husband is an adjunct professor in agriculture at the University of Western Australia. In 2020 her service to Australian churches was recognised with the award of the Medal of the Order of Australia.
Jesus and the Women of the New Testament

Jesus and the Women of the New Testament

There is a lie that there is something wrong with women, even though Genesis tells us that both women and men are wonderfully made by a God who delights in us. The lie of our inadequacy, our limitations, goes deep but Brené Brown suggests pushing back against lies that shame us. One way to do that is to take a good long look at Jesus and his interactions with women. He models how women should be viewed. Dare we hold on to an attitude so different from that of Jesus?

First-century patriarchal Palestine is not our world, and we often do not notice how radical Jesus’ actions were. Jesus clearly did not treat women as second-class or dangerous to his purity. He welcomed them into his circle and defied the restrictions of his culture and the hyper-religiosity of the Pharisees. He raised the eyebrows of those observing him. They were quick to see he was offering women a different way to value themselves. His enemies even tried to use his known sympathy for women to trap him, hauling the woman caught in adultery into their stone-throwing circle.

Obviously, Jesus’ interactions with women start with Mary. The daring commitment of this young girl in saying yes to God is a model for us. She did not always understand what her son was doing, but she followed his public ministry and was there at the cross, a silent witness of the gruesome spectacle of dying in the most shameful way Roman military-might could devise. Her persevering love was reciprocated in his concern for her, even in his extremity. We read later she was in the upper room praying with the other loyal followers after Jesus’ ascension and was probably there too when the Holy Spirit fell at Pentecost.

There were other Marys among the women who travelled with Jesus. Most of these female disciples were from poorer families in the north, but Joanna and Susanna came from households with more resources and were essential to his support team. As unusual as this was, it gave no cause for scandal and illustrates how comfortable all the disciples were in this mixed company, taking their cue from Jesus’ own attitude.  Some of the women were entrusted with the earth-shattering revelation of Jesus’ resurrection. John singles out Mary Magdalene, she of the chequered past, as the first to encounter the risen Christ and give witness to his living reality. This in a society where a women’s testimony was not acceptable in court.

Earlier in his ministry, Jesus had already shown unusual acceptance of women – of the haemorrhaging ‘unclean’ woman; the ostracised woman at the well in Samaria; the Gentile woman pleading with him for her child; the woman (maybe two) who let down their hair in public to anoint his feet.

In one episode in Samaria, we see the surprise of Jesus’ disciples returning to find him speaking at length to a disreputable woman. In his friendship with Mary and Martha, unmarried women living with their brother, Jesus again challenged the contemporary view of women. At different times he engaged Martha in robust debate and in one notable interaction specifically commended Mary for wanting to learn at the feet of the Master.

Jesus used a woman to represent God in the parable of the lost coin. We also find Luke in his gospel pairs women with men in a way that shows up the worth of the woman. Examples include Mary responding positively to the angel compared with sceptical Zacharias; a ‘sinner’ woman anointing Jesus’ feet in the home of neglectful Simon the Pharisee; a bent woman healed while a synagogue ruler condemns; a poor widow giving her all in the temple in the presence of rich men.

Given the attitude of the founder, it is not surprising that Acts records the early church having Phoebe, Priscilla, Lydia, Junia, and Philip’s daughters among its leaders and teachers. They contribute to the rapid spread of Christianity under the impetus of the Holy Spirit as the church moves its focus from Jerusalem to the rest of the Roman world.

There is a Greek word, perichoresis, used through the centuries to describe oneness within the Godhead. It describes a circle dance of equals, giving and receiving, each in perfect union. The word also has the idea of indwelling, because the participants in this Godhead dance are not separate entities, but one.

Perichoresis is also a good picture of our new status as redeemed women (and men). We are invited into the God relationship, not because we have ceased to be separate individuals, but because we are able, without shame, to enjoy divine friendship. Accepted by God, and accepting ourselves, we participate in the flow of grace and enjoy a dance of abandon with our Creator.

 

Jennifer Turner has been a pioneering pastor with Baptist and Churches of Christ and a sessional lecturer in several Australian and overseas seminaries. In her retirement she is supervising doctoral students in Asia and Australia and training pastors in Africa. She also continues to write on the theology of everyday life and enjoys her family of three sons and her eight grandchildren. Her husband is an adjunct professor in agriculture at the University of Western Australia. In 2020 her service to Australian churches was recognised with the award of the Medal of the Order of Australia.
Welcome to The Together Project

Welcome to The Together Project

Hi and welcome to The Together Project!

We are a non-profit, inter-denominational Christian ministry based in Perth, Western Australia. We provide information, resources, and inspiration to help Christians to confidently articulate an intelligent, courageous, and grace-filled message about God’s plan and purpose for women and men in the world.

Our hope is that this site will be a great resource for you and that you will be inspired by the teaching, resources and personal stories you will find here. We are so grateful for the support of many leaders who value the gifting of both men and women in the church and thank them for lending their support to not only this project, but to the full flourishing of both men and women in the church.

If you’re looking for answers about what the Bible says about women serving in pastoral leadership and ministry in the church, a great place to start is our FAQs section. Start with this article on how we read the Bible today in order to figure out what to do.

Our vision & values…

  • We believe that the Bible is the inspired Word of God and our authoritative guide for faith, life, and practice. (2 Timothy 3:16-17)
  • We assert that “God made women and men for mutuality, equality, co-stewardship, intimacy, and to love and glorify God together as full, and fully dignified and equal, partners”. [1]
  • We value Christian community and the vital role it plays in interpreting Scripture and discerning the will of God. 
  • We value the gifts, strengths and individual contributions of both men and women.
  • We welcome kind, compassion, curious and courageous conversations. 

With love,

Yvette, Jennifer, Steve and Bronwen.

 

[1] Graham Joseph Hill, Holding Up Half The Sky: A Biblical Case for Women Leading and Teaching in the Church (Oregon: Cascade Books, 2020), 24.

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